by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 19, 2012 | Faith, Family
I first heard the term soon after I began college. It wasn’t mentioned among my peers, per se, but more from our advisors…the teachers of our freshman orientation classes. We certainly made reference to it, even if we never used the actual word. Helicopter...
by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 18, 2012 | Faith
“Look. I have a strategy. Why expect anything? If you don’t expect anything, you don’t get disappointed.” (Patricia McCormick, Cut) “I find my life is a lot easier the lower I keep my expectations.” (Bill Watterson) A few weeks ago, my family took a long-awaited trip...
by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 17, 2012 | Faith
The other night in my small group, we watched a message from Craig Groeschel that hit me in my heart. It penetrated deeply. It hurt. I laughed at the many similarities between what he said and my own life…but inside I was thoroughly disturbed. (It is no...
by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 16, 2012 | Faith
It’s easily one of the hardest things you could ask me to do. I would do a million other things – likely destroying myself in the process – before I could take the plunge and do it. No matter how long I think about it, I cannot develop a scenario...
by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 15, 2012 | Faith, Family
Can I confess something? Before I became a mother, I was a terrible judge of others’ mothering. I mean that in both ways it could be read: 1)I was bad about judging how mothers did things with their kids. 2)I was not a very good judge of what I saw. I cringe to look...
by Jessica Bolyard | Oct 14, 2012 | Faith
“We must be content to grow slowly. Most of us will still barely be at the beginning of our recovery by the time we die. But that is better than killing ourselves pretending to be healthy.” -Simon Tugwell God began doing a good work in you, and I am...